What style of a slave play works?
I think any style of slave play works as long as the slave doesn't pretend to be someone she isn't, but tries to be because she assumes the environment expects it from her. I would say:be your own unique person and approach the world that way at all times.
What traits are ideal to me and what makes a slave stick out for me? First and foremost I also want my slave to use her own mind at all times and stay away from stereotypes as stated in the start of this thread. I don't want a slave who says 'Yes, Master'just to please me, but rather would have said 'No, Master' in a certain situation. Or says 'This is the truth because my Master says so'. In other words, I don't want a slave who acts like a doll and wishes to be treated like one.
I love to discuss things with my slave and learn to know her thoughts, feelings and emotions about everything. Because in my opinion it's not only about how you expect your slave to behave.Its also about how, as a Master, you should behave towards your slave. Because every slave is different and has her own unique personality. So you can't treat every slave the same if you want her to be the best she can be. She is not a Bosk, but a cute little animal with intelligence.
But when I hear my slave about her experience with other free men and Masters she encounters, than it is not going to make me very happy often. When do men start to realize that when they behave like harsh brainless and kind of frustrated assholes towards every slave they encounter, even to the ones who are someone elses property, that they re ruining a lot of wonderful roleplaying for everyone?
Isn't it stated in the books that Gorean men just love that beautiful creatures called females and want to own a woman completely, mind, body and soul?. But here in sl it seems that many men are only interested in the females body, so only want to have a fuck toy at their boot. Men, I can tell you from personal experience, you re missing out more than you can imagine by treating your slave like no more than a fuck toy.
But that's your choice or course. More important to me personally is that Goreans are also known as men who live by honor and respect. It makes me wonder then, when you call yourself a Gorean man, why the heck you treat someone else's slave totally respectless?
When you read the books well and pay attention to how Tarl Cabot treats the slaves he own, then you ll find out he indeed treats them harshly when needed. But you ll also find out then that he also spends lots of time talking to a slave he owns, to learn to know about her and her abilities. Which results not only in slaves who please him with perfection, but also made him a very rich man in one of the books, just because he used the abilities of that particular slave perfectly. And how could he do that? Simply by learning to know about her.
But more important in Second Life however is that many Masters seem to forget that women are naturally way better communicators than men. Women are the glue which keeps a community together. And don't we all want a strong community at the sims we roleplay? I have no doubt about it that you want that too.
And the only way to succeed in that is, as also stated in the start of this thread, learning to understand slaves. Talk to the female you own an learn why she behaves in certain ways and what her thoughts and feelings are. And take the time to let her talk freely about her thoughts and feelings. And then send her out to socialize and meet people and serve them well as a slave.
And the reward for the time you invest in your slave will be, that people will compliment you over and over again about the marvelous slave beast you own. Every men loves to hear it when others like the property he owns as much as he does. But he is the one who really owns her and that makes a man feel damn proud.
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