How to become a good Gorean Master

My slave honestly thinks I am a natural Gorean Master. And who could better judge that than your own slave girl who already has a lot of Gorean role play experience under her belt and who almost made a study of the Gor books. I considered it a huge compliment when she told me.
And after giving it some thought it became part of the reason why I started this blog. Because why should I keep all my knowlegde. skills, traits and life experiences, which makes me that so called 'natural Gorean Master' to myself, when I can help others to become better at what they wish to be, a Gorean Master.
At least I would like to think you want to become a Gorean Master, or are a Gorean Master already who's interested in experiences, thoughts and knowledge of other Gorean Masters. But it doesn't matter if you re not, because it could for several reasons be an interesting read for you anyway.
I think my slave sees me as a natural Gorean Master foremost because I come across as a pretty self confident, self assured, mentally strong, well mannered man who always tries to treat the people around him respectfully. Next to that I always keep my promises and believe that actions always speak louder than words.
And I guess that's what attracted me to Gor in Second Life in the first place. Because the male characters in the books appear to be the same kind of men and I am always looking forward to meet people who in their own way try to be the best they can be.
Also I treat my slave most respectfully. Even though the books tend to make you believe at first that a slave is just another piece of property, with which you can do as you please, you ll discover soon that many Gorean Masters also see a slave as a wonderful creature of nature who is very pleasant company in many ways. And I think that's absolutely true if you make the efford to learn to know your slave. To learn about her likes, her dislikes, her hopes, her dreams, her fears, her wants and her needs and feelings.
I believe a slave girl can only be at her most beautiful, lustful, passionate, sexy, giving, loving, caring and pleasurable when she feels safe, protected, cared for and thus absolutely comfortable in your presence. It doesn't matter how you think of a slave girl or what you think of a slave girl, she ll always be a woman. And a woman, especially when she is a slave who completely submits herself to you, doesn't want to be anything else than the woman you ve always dreamed of.
And is truly owning a woman who furfills all your wants and needs in every area of you life not what every man dreams about? You also can make that dream come true, by just treating your slave the right way.
But what is the right way to treat your slave? I don't think the right way to treat your slave is beating her up and whip her and punish her at every wrong moves she makes. I think that is indulging your frustrations and your lack of control of her on your slave which doesn't get you anywhere.
The right way to treat a slave is first and foremost treating her with respect. Because, when treated right, she ll be the best she can be in pleasing you. A women who's able to meet all your needs and wants, should be considered your most precious possession. And something so precious you should treat respectfully. Show your appreciation for what she does for you sometimes, compliment her sometimes, and tell her and show from time to time her how pleased you are with her.
I hear you think: "But heh, she is just a slave, she should just do that". That's absolutely true.
But look at it this way. You also should do your job right, because your boss is paying you for doing your job right. But imagine your boss only comes to you when you did something wrong and only gets mad at you and tells you what a loser you are. Does that motivate you in the long run to try to keep doing your job well?
But what if your boss gets mad at you sometimes when you indeed did something wrong, but also compliments you sometimes when you did your job great. Doesn't that motivate you even more and doesn't that make you try to be the best employe you can be? Everyone needs appreciation for what he does sometimes. Because that's what keeps a person going and happy and motivated and it is definitely the thing that makes them do their very best for you time and time again.
And your slave is no exception to that rule. So don't be afraid to show her and tell her you really appreciate what she is to you, your devoted slave.
However, not only treating her respectfully gets you were you want to be with your slave. Every woman and especially your slave not only wants to feel your power and control over her, but actually needs to feel your power and control over her. That's what's keeping her feel safe and protected by you. The elementary needs of every woman. And that's why she will test your power and control over her from time to time. Sometimes consciously, sometimes unconsciously.
And the way you respond to that tests determines if she can feel safe and protected by you or not. You should pay attention to it, now you know this. And then you ll see that every time as her Master passes a test from her, she ll grow more and more fond of you.
When we summarize all that's been written in this post, we can say that: when you act like a man who shows respect for his slave and appreciates her for who she is and makes her feel his power and control over her, has the basics in him to become a good Gorean Master.